Blog | Brittany L. Bergman

15 Tips for Doing Disney World with a Toddler

Disclosure: Some of the links in this post are affiliate links, meaning, at no additional cost to you, I will earn a small commission if you click through and make a purchase. It’s been about a month since we returned from our first trip to Disney World as a family, and while it was every bit as exhausting as I expected, it was also just as magical as I expected. I was only slightly worried that a trip to Disney wouldn’t be worth it with such a young child, but I’m happy to report that I would 100% do this… Read More

Light a Match

Nov 15 Leave a Comment

After seeing the news on Facebook about the Pittsburgh synagogue shooting, I sank into my living room chair, phone glued to my hand as I scrolled for more information about what had happened and why. My shoulders began to shake under the weight of what had been lost; tears fell as I succumbed to the darkness that seemed to be enveloping our world. This has become a pattern for me lately: feel shattered by a current event, express my outrage and lament over the state of the world, build up a sense of normalcy in the aftermath, watch as that sense… Read More

Gender Reveal + 1st Trimester Update

Nov 7 Leave a Comment

A quick note before we get started: In exchange for sharing my honest opinion, SneakPeek sent me their FastTrack Early Gender DNA Test to try out. Thank you, SneakPeek! Wow, friends! When I announced this pregnancy and crowd-sourced questions on Instagram, you came through with some seriously thoughtful questions! Writing out my answers here has been really helpful to me as I process the events of the last few months, which have felt like such a blur in the midst of recovery, morning sickness, and all-out exhaustion. And in case you’re thinking, Wait, WHAT? allow me to catch you up: I’m 15 weeks pregnant… Read More

Would I Do It All Again?

Oct 12 Leave a Comment

The ding-dings of cheerful chimes filled my ears, infiltrating my foggy head. I struggled to make sense of why my alarm was pulling me out of sleep at 2:00 in the morning and why my body felt as though it had been hit by a truck. I forced my eyes open, letting them adjust to the darkness, and I noticed my daughter’s bassinet just a few feet away from my bed. My swirling thoughts converged: it was our first night home from the hospital, and it was time for another feeding. I wondered how long ago my husband had been… Read More

The Sound of My Voice

Oct 9 Leave a Comment

I don’t have a neat label for what he did to me. All I’m really sure of is he took something from me that I didn’t want to give, and now I have the trauma but no proof. I was home for the summer before my senior year of college. I saw him for the first time on stage, playing guitar and leading worship for the youth group where my parents were leaders. Mild flirtation on MySpace became hanging out and then going on a real date. He took me to the driving range on a warm summer night, the… Read More

Armchair Chats // Time, Memory, and Breaking Out of Survival Mode

Sep 28 Leave a Comment

This month was a whole lot quieter than last month, but it still seemed to whirl by without me really breathing it in. Selah has been sick for the past week, and I have been home with her nearly all day, every day—staying home over the weekend when she was too feverish to get out of the house, working from home when she couldn’t go to daycare. (Dan has borne much of the responsibility too, just to be clear.) But after 6 straight days of being housebound with a sick kid, I realized that this week has actually felt like… Read More

Fun Mom

Sep 19 Leave a Comment

Most Saturday mornings in my house look the same: I sit on the couch next to Selah, her tiny body snuggled into mine, one of my arms encircling her shoulder. The TV is tuned to Peppa Pig or Daniel Tiger or whoever is the character of the week, and with my free hand I hold my most recent library book. I’ll glance at my phone and see that it’s close to 9, and I don’t feel too bad. It’s still early, plenty of time to get outside or play some puzzles or make a donut run. And then I’ll glance… Read More

Timeline of a Miscarriage

Sep 12 Leave a Comment

Dan and I are at Fire + Wine celebrating our fifth wedding anniversary. The daily cocktail is right up my alley: blueberry-infused gin, a splash of grapefruit juice, a squeeze of lemon. I groan when the waiter leaves because I want that drink so badly, but I am secretly giddy to have to refuse. When he comes back I ask him which of the house-made cheeses are pasteurized. “Everything except the pecorino and manchego,” he says. I dutifully substitute parmesan on our stuffed gnocchi appetizer. It turns out I could have eaten the damn pecorino. *** Before I go to… Read More